Wednesday, March 21, 2007

“Takpela, mungkin Tuhan nak kasi jumpa dgn org yg lebih baik lg”


Love is any of number of emotions as well as experiences related to a sense of strong affection or intense oneness. Love can have a wide variety of intended meanings.

Romantic love is seen as a deep, indescribable feeling of deep and tender attraction shared in passionate or intimate attraction .Love can also be conceived of as platonic love, religious love, familial love, and, more casually, great affection for anything considered strongly pleasurable, desirable, or preferred, including activities and foods.


Sometime love may hurt…One of my friends has just broken up with his girlfriend. Pity him. I could understand what he’s feeling and thinking. But I think as a man, he should be stronger. Through his sigh, I know that he still love his girlfriend even he kept saying “takpela, mungkin Tuhan nak kasi jumpa dgn org yg lebih baik lg”. I know that he still love her and hope she will come back to him even he kept denying it.


He frequently asked me for a girl during their crisis and after they broke up. I don’t know which friends (girl) of mine suit him. I’m not so sure whether this kind of way would help him forget what has happened to him. Maybe he should go on holiday or do outdoor activities.


He was quite shocked when he found out that his girlfriend befriends with one guy and I thought he was jealous and angry. If I’ve not mistaken, they were couple since six year ago. He did anything for her. I could see his great affection toward her. They were blissful and happy couple. Their parents have given fully consent for their relationship and I predicted they will be married soon. But, we are just able to plan and The Almighty will decide.


I still remembered during his crisis, almost everyday they quarreled by phone. He has bought a lot of top up card and yielded nothing in his attempt to get her back. He even cried in one night, maybe because it was hard to get her back. He did not aware I was not sleep yet that night and I could hear he was crying. Pity him. Oh God, could we imagine a guy crying, so embarrassing and awful. For me, I’ll say to him “hey man you should be stronger. What the fucking shit you are crying because of that fucking stupid girl who dumped you”.


He told me he will never love someone like he did to her. I hope he will be stronger and can learn something based on what happened. For the fucking stupid girl, we should not fully blame her and it is possible she has her own reasons. I expect he learn from his or her mistake and grab something valuable and maybe meaningful from what has happened between them.